honestly, i haven't done this yet. i'm 22 years old and promise myself to only make love when i get married.. ok, cliche as it may sound but there's nothing wrong in saving what i have for the man i'll be with for the rest of my life.
i have nothing against people who did this without marriage, it's just that for me, it is that valuable and sacred that i don't intend to do without the sacrament of marriage
