FACTS about life! hehe
If a man wants you, nothing can keep
him
away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can
make
him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his
behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to
save
you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a
relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before
you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man
was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A
friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is
stringing you along, then he probably
is.
Don't stay because you think "it will
get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things
are
not better.
The only person you can control in a
relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of
children
by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them
pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends
separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy
treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He
will
use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more
important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do
not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll
cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you
ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the
bending...compromise is a two-way
street.
You need time to heal between
relationships...there is nothing cute
about
baggage... deal with your issues before
pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to
COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for
someone complimentary...not
supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn
out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a
man
always know where you are, and you're
always readily available to him--he
takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't
give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know
others.
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