what happens if you fall inlove with your bestfriend?

[SeLFiE_12]

when you fall in love you will not think of those things anymore...a lot of "what ifs" will be in your mind but in the end you'll decide on where you think you'll be happy...falling in love with your best friend is great as you already know it other you can be lovers and best friends at the same time...it is within you to improve your relationship and not waste the friendship you have before you became lovers...most relationship like this in my opinion succeed but others if they part ways friendship will at times no longer survive and that will be the risk you have to take...

[potchie]

yes, this was so hard, but if the same feeling grow... i much like to fall in love to the person knows me well..inside out..

[anrev]

Originally Posted by potchie

yes, this was so hard, but if the same feeling grow... i much like to fall in love to the person knows me well..inside out..

Yes I agree with you...the one that will accept you fro who you are..

[hitman03]

its fun having a best friend but in love with her. that's is very hard because the time you spend with her when she's your best friend is not the same the time you will spend to her as your girl friend....

[fbuenanry]

i guess you have to keep the feelings by yourself.. it's hard to fall in love with the person you know a lot.. it's a question of what do you value most, the friendship or the feelings? it's fine to go on with the feelings..but sometimes, if the relationship doesn't work, the friendship will not be the same again.

[friend4fantasy]

Originally Posted by fbuenanry

i guess you have to keep the feelings by yourself.. it's hard to fall in love with the person you know a lot.. it's a question of what do you value most, the friendship or the feelings? it's fine to go on with the feelings..but sometimes, if the relationship doesn't work, the friendship will not be the same again.

The friendship will not be the same, and maybe disappear. Do you risk the chance on love, or have a friend forever? Tough choice. Throw out some signs that you are interested, and maybe something will happen. Make it seem like it's his idea, not yours.

[anrev]

Originally Posted by fbuenanry

i guess you have to keep the feelings by yourself.. it's hard to fall in love with the person you know a lot.. it's a question of what do you value most, the friendship or the feelings? it's fine to go on with the feelings..but sometimes, if the relationship doesn't work, the friendship will not be the same again.

Yes I guess we have to keep the feeling with in us for the sake of friendship. We dont know whats going to happened either it will be destroyed or will work out. There are lots of 'what if' in this situation and you dont know what is the feeling of your bestfriend too...

[vinz07]

Well, thats great..awesome....you've known him/her for so long ..so go ahead...dont worry about it....be confident..you're very lucky...

[candymae23]

hello.. . . . I think the friendship will affected if you fall in love with your bestfriend. . .

[sleepyhead]

Originally Posted by candymae23

hello.. . . . I think the friendship will affected if you fall in love with your bestfriend. . .

on some cases, love that starts from being best of friends is a good one. why? coz you already know him/her very well and on some point you know the opposites weakness. this could affect, depends on the friendship, no big deal, but its positive.