Rejection

Recently I asked a girl out at my high school. Meaning the
mistakeofgetting a friend to ask her out for me. I dont know what I
wasthinkingI carried away. And by the way she said no, cause she wasnt
sosure.How can I make it up to her? Friends suggested that i should
askheragain by myself in a private place, apologise about my friend
andImade her feel embarresed or uncomfortable, ask her to chat to
melikeat lunch in a deserted place and ask her what she felt. Talk
abouteachother. Any suggestions? By the way wre both in YEAR 10 and 15
yearsoldthoguh she isnt in any of my classes. HELP!

[puppynut5]

Yah man definately....You should have asked her straight up yourself. It's always better just to be straight up front about everything. even though you might be worried about it...think the worse thing that can happen is she says no. Not the end of the world.

Thanks puppynut, well I asked her and she said no, iam not worried no more. Cause i got someone else interested in me. Though i was intrested in her, the 1 st girl.

[cysite]

Originally Posted by matt90

Recently I asked a girl out at my high school. Meaning the
mistakeofgetting a friend to ask her out for me. I dont know what I
wasthinkingI carried away. And by the way she said no, cause she wasnt
sosure.How can I make it up to her? Friends suggested that i should
askheragain by myself in a private place, apologise about my friend
andImade her feel embarresed or uncomfortable, ask her to chat to
melikeat lunch in a deserted place and ask her what she felt. Talk
abouteachother. Any suggestions? By the way wre both in YEAR 10 and 15
yearsoldthoguh she isnt in any of my classes. HELP!

just a question.. how old are you?

[rossco24/7]

[b]'By the way wre both in YEAR 10 and 15/[b] '

he already said he was 15 in the original post (which you quoted)

[fire_lady]

Definitely ask her again properly.
don't be afraid of rejection as long as you do it your self. Just be polite and natural.
Good luck ('',)

[titototito]

Like someone said before, You have nothing to lose (well you may get a little red), and you can't expect them to make the forst move. Can you? Good luck.

[GroundPounderUSMC]

You're going to give up now that you think she means no? When a girl says no (about SOME things) Look at the way she says it, her body language, eye contact... etc. You can have any girl you want as long as you don't have like a third arm or something. It's all about presentation, confidence, and sincerety. If a girl thinks you are sincere, but could quite possible be a "bad ass" also, she normally will let her guard down some.

You already screwed your first impression. No big deal, get her to atleast go with you somewhere as a friend, and show her the real you. Also, before you go havng your friends help you out, it's much easier to do your homework. I followed my wife (before we got together) to starbucks every single morning after the subway. If I missed that train i'd have a horrible day. I knew what she liked to read, her favorite coffee, and a few choice things.

I've never been the type to back down if a girl wouldn't let me take her out. I get what I want ten minutes before I know I want it. Gotta get out of that "shy boy" mindset. Good luck to ya, bro. p.s. if you learn and make yourself brave young, you'll have no problem when you're older. Carry on.

[Anita]

Hopefully, you are still friends with this young lady, no? I hope that you didn't just "kick her to the curb" because she rejected you. Deal with her on a friendship basis, and do the things that you would normally do with a friend. When the next opportunity presents itself, and you want to get serious,approach her yourself with sincerity and honesty. Leave your homies out of it.

[puppynut5]

Yah very true... Rejection doesn't mean you kick them to the curb like one of my friends is thinkign about.